1Be confident. Studies show that confidence is the key to looking good and feeling good. To gain confidence, try writing a list of things you are good at and things that you like about yourself. For instance:
My pretty eyes are complimented often.
I have a great personality.
I can get along with people easily.
I have a lot of friends
Also, a great way to gain confidence is to join a sport that you are good at, or want to excel in. Not only will this boost your self-esteem, you are guaranteed to make new friends! Boys love when girls are oozing self confidence, but they also like a girl that is humble, so don't get a big head.
2Break the touch barrier. The touch barrier is an invisible 'thing' that stops you from interacting physically with a crush. To break it, touch him whenever you can. While talking to him, casually touch him on the shoulder or playfully go up behind him and pull his hood up. Hug him casually when you say "Hi", find excuses to touch his hair shoulder face or back. Or, comapare hand sizes, and then slowly Share Flood-It!3Try to hold his hand. You could also come up behind him, cover his eyes, and say "guess who!" cutely. Be careful, though. These things (if used extensively) can be annoying to him.4Get to know him. Though we can be quick to want to date random hotties, said hottie could be freaked when you ask him out without even a conversation first. To get a conversation started, talk about him; everybody likes talking about themselves. Ask him about things you know he loves. Talk about your interests, jobs, families, friends, pets, favorite things, you name it. If he is in the same sport as you, or a sport you want to join, voila! More time with Mr. Right.5Slowly start giving him the signs... Joke around with him, to start! Make him laugh and feel himself growing comfortable with you. If you are bold enough, ask him to go out with you and your friends to a movie, lunch, or just hanging out at the mall or local park. Look him more in the eyes, but make sure that you don't look at him strangely; this will turn him off. Smile at him when passing in the halls, or give him a playful high five. A few compliments will show him that you are into him.6Find the right time... for him to ask you out. When you are with your friends, the guy might feel awkward to ask you to 'talk privately'. (Wouldn't you?) If he is shy, ask him yourself! The worst thing that could happen is rejection; and when that happens, move on! Its time to go boy hunting again. If he says yes, congrats! It is all you from here on out.
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